Mother’s Day Tea (Part 2)
Here is a video from the tea showing the sweet song the kids sang for their moms. Caleb had a not so little meltdown over some chocolate shortly after this and was not in the mood for pictures, so this blurry/shaky video and the mommy survey are truly the highlights and how I would like to remember the day. I love you anyways little buddy!
Mommy, mommy I love you.
Thank you for the things you do.
You are busy all day long,
Helping me grow big and strong.
Mommy, mommy I love you.
Thank you for the things you do.
How do you know?
Today at my mom’s group, our speaker was a lady named Barbara Tompkins. She has been one of my mom’s best friends for a long time, and her daughter Kate, was my very first best friend. She told us today that we should all go home and ask our kids how they know we love them. It’s a good way to find out what makes our kids feel loved the most. Here’s what I got:
Me: “Hey boys, how do you know that Mama loves you?”
Caleb: “Because God loves you, so you love me.”
Noah: “Because everyone just loves me!”
Some of my other favorite quotes from this morning…
“Who you are is more important than what you do.”
“Values are caught, not taught.”
“You are not your feelings, you are your choices.”
“Our job as moms is to make it easy for our kids to be good.”
“I love you too much to let you act like this, and I know you can make a better choice.”
She also recommended the book, Give Them Grace, which I am looking forward to reading.
I really treasure my time spent with other moms soaking in the wisdom of moms who are further down the road. I’m thankful for that today!
Easter 2012
Noah (5) Lincoln (17 months) Caleb (3)
The boys had fun meeting their new cousin, baby Zoey. Caleb loved smelling her feet.
Cory’s family traditions for Easter include a piñata. As the boys are getting older, this is getting to be a really fun thing! Even Lincoln got in on the action.
Of course we had lots of egg hunting…
Love how excited Noel is about her eggs! I also love Lincoln’s chubby little wrists :0)
Lincoln takes a little break…
It’s the easter bunny!
Trying out their new silly straws.
Noah’s April memory verse: “That Christ died for our sins and He was buried, and He was raised on the third day, just as the Bible says.” 1 Corinthians 15:3,4
The Middle Child
I’m really proud of Caleb because he recently figured out how to pump. He loves to swing. Now he’s so good at it, he can go from zero to sky high without any help at all! I definitely see a strong streak of determination in this middle child. He sees something that Noah can do, and works so hard to keep up! I pray this will be a character trait that will serve him well in the years to come. Love this kid!
I keep thinking of things that I want to remember about the boys these days and meaning to record them here. I know I’ll enjoy reminiscing someday when they are all taller than me, and maybe even leaving the nest (gasp!). I also threw in a few pictures from my phone. I’ve been really bad about getting my camera out lately.
Lincoln- 14 months
Words: uh-oh, mama, dada, da da (thank you), baba (brother), ba (bath), ba ba (bye bye), some animal sounds. He signs for please, more, eat, and all done, but will mostly point and grunt.
Teeth: 13
Sleep: Usually about 12 hours at night and a 2 hour nap in the middle of the day. He doesn’t really want to rock or snuggle before bedtime anymore, but just throws his blankie in the crib and leans for it.
Food: Allergic to eggs, and lactose intolerant. But loves everything else. He will eat anything if I let him use a fork, and he’s getting pretty good at it too.
He gives the best long, tight hugs around my neck when I get him up from his nap. He can open doors. He enjoys putting his hands in the toilet. He loves to play in the backyard with his brothers.
Caleb- 3 years and 4 months
Favorite words- anything forbidden (stupid, poo-poo, butt). So instead of saying these words, he says dutt. As in, “you are such a dutter!” Or “Caleb, what did you do at school today?”… “Dutt.” (giggle, giggle)
He is enjoying his preschool class, but he struggles with not being too silly at circle time. I wonder if he will always love making people laugh, and how we will use this power for good. He’s also really good at telling “stories”. Without hesitation, he will say, “When I used to be a daddy, I took my kids to the park every day.”
He surprised me by writing his name for the first time and every else’s in the family, too. I’d tried to sit him down and help him learn but he wasn’t interested in the past.
He has a great memory! He has a United States puzzle that he loves to do, and he has memorized the name of all 50 states. He also memorizes all of Noah’s Bible verses for his class.
He loves to play hide and seek, and is learning to stay hidden until he’s found.
He loves to cook and bake with me. If he hears the mixer fire up, he runs to the kitchen and wants to be right there on the counter helping me add ingredients. He’s eager to taste new things, and has strong opinions about taste. He loves to chew gum.
He wants to be sung to, and he likes to sing. He usually asks for hymns at bedtime, because they are longer. Favorites are Trust and Obey, Great is Thy Faithfulness, Day by Day, Amazing Grace, and It is Well With My Soul.
He can really get Lincoln (and other babies too) laughing with complete nonsense/silliness.
It’s easy for me to forget he’s only three. I catch myself holding him to the same standards I have for Noah.
Noah- 5 years and 6 months
Words- Acts as word patrol. So and so said such and such. Very first born.
He loves being in Mrs. Fox’s pre-K class. He struggles to enjoy crafts or coloring. He’d rather be playing. He is learning to read, and this is so fun for me! He never tires of me reading to him. His new favorite book is Yertle the Turtle.
If he spends 15 minutes playing with a random kid at the park, he will refer to them as his best friend.
He loves cars. He notices different makes and models as we drive around, and talks about all the places he’ll go by himself when he’s sixteen.
He eats like a horse, every couple of hours. He’s leery of new foods, but usually can be talked into taking one bite. He prefers to eat leftover dinner for breakfast. He really wants to love gum, but can’t chew it longer than 30 seconds.
He asks a lot of questions about God, and the world. He likes to know how things work. He builds legos, takes them apart, and rebuilds them.
He loves to hit balls in the backyard with the whiffle bat. I struggle because if I stand close enough to him to pitch the ball accurately into the strike zone, I get pelted!
I love these boys. They make each day rich with humbling challenges, contagious laughter, and good company. They are sweet to me. I get so many “I love you’s” and “You’re the best mama ever’s”. Kind of makes up for all the sticky, stinky messes they leave behind them.
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